49. Marie Smith
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David Dollar (00:00): Hello again, in case you're just joining us, this is David Dollar. We're glad to have you on Memories with us this morning. We're going to visit with Ms. Marie Smith of Natchitoches, and we're going to start things off. Ms. Smith, you've visited once with us already on Memories, and we'd like to maybe pick up where we left off last time. Talking earlier, you mentioned some things about, you remember playing games and things you did as a child and in school. Why don't we start there?
Marie Smith (00:25): Well I was fortunate in one way, and another way, I wasn't. I had a brother, older, and one younger. And, actually, I was on the side with the boys, and I did what they did. And they'd play dolls with me at times, but the most of time our activities were outdoors. And especially in the summer, we didn't have any trouble finding something to do. There was horses to ride. And we didn't have any place to swim. That's one thing I regret. We didn't learn to swim. But we would go crawfishing, and we would go berry picking. Lots of times in the spring, my mother would come in and tell us, "Well, we got a bunch of little new chickens this morning." We'd go to the chicken house and see that hen with all the little-bitties. That was a pretty sight.
David Dollar (01:19): Where were you growing up at this time?
Marie Smith (01:19): Culbertson Lane. On the farm.
David Dollar (01:19): On the farm.
Marie Smith (01:28): And then maybe our daddy would come in and tell us, "Well, we got a new litter of pigs." Well, that was a pretty sight, too, a big old sow with about 10 or 15 little pigs. That was pretty too. And, when the chicken business came, when she went to sitting the hens, I always wanted to own something. So I said, "But why can't I have this one?" She says, "Well, you can have that one, when they hatch. But you got to feed it." They taught us responsibility. And, of course, I fed it until it got to where it eat corn off the yard. And I forgot about even owning the chickens.
David Dollar (02:02): You didn't want to take up that [crosstalk 00:02:06]
Marie Smith (02:06): No, no. So... But we had, in the wintertime, we had a good time. Because the days were short, we went to school, and there wasn't much you could do between that and dark. Because we went to school at four o'clock.
David Dollar (02:22): Four o'clock in the morning?
Marie Smith (02:22): Evening.
David Dollar (02:23): Oh, in the evening?
Marie Smith (02:24): Evening. Now, we got back home and everything. And at night we'd sit around, especially be the cold weather. We would sit around the fire and play Jack in the Bush. That was with pecans. Everybody had him a pan of pecans, and you'd cup your hand up and you'd have to guess whether I had five or whether I didn't have any. And if you didn't guess it right, you paid the difference. Well, we got a kick out that. In the meantime, we were watching birds. We had some robins. Then you could kill robins, and we dressed them. And my daddy had four, five little small legs on the fireplace where we could hang them and roast them. And mother put a big old iron griddle to catch the drippings, and we'd watched those birds cook. And they just tasted so good. And we didn't have too many games. And what we lacked in the home, then, with most people was music. We didn't have much music. And when you heard some music, oh, you just fell for it.
David Dollar (03:37): Where did you hear your first music that you remember?
Marie Smith (03:37): At school.
David Dollar (03:43): At school? Did the teacher have you all singing some songs?
Marie Smith (03:44): Songs. And then we rehearsed the Christmas programs, Maypole dances, that was twice in a year, and Thanksgiving. Now, the Christmas lasted quite a while because we helped hung everything that went on that tree. We made these paper chains. And we would thread the popcorn, and we'd bring in sweet gumballs, and she would dip those in something. But those chains, we just made oodles of those out of colored paper. And that was part of the occupational therapy in the school. When you didn't have a class, well, that would give you something to do. So we'd look forward to Christmas and I can just smell those apples now. I've never smelled the apples that smelled as good when we got them then. They were shipped in. You didn't have the apples, but once a year.
David Dollar (04:41): Oh, really?
Marie Smith (04:42): And that was Christmas?
David Dollar (04:42): Where'd they come from?
Marie Smith (04:44): Well, I don't know. I guess we got them from New Orleans, and fruit was shipped in just about once a year.
David Dollar (04:51): That was a big occasions when it got here, I bet.
Marie Smith (04:58): Ooh, apples and oranges in your stocking. Because we bought candy, and lots of times you could get a candy, but... And raisins, raisins were in a big wooden box, loose raisins. They were dried, and they were delicious. So that went into our Christmas stocking too. But we had a good time. We were never idle, and we would make... Now, the boys would make the traps to catch these birds, deadfall. We'd put them out, and we'd go out there and catch them, and they weren't dead. They were alive. And, in the spring of the year, we played tops and marbles. And they fixed the tops and they-
David Dollar (05:43): Your brothers made their own tops?
Marie Smith (05:45): No, you bought the tops, but that little thing it spin on, it wasn't very sharp. So they'd go and get a nail and sharpen it on this old wheel that we'd sharpen axes on and things and made it real sharp.
David Dollar (06:05): A grindstone or something.
Marie Smith (06:05): That's right. And when they spinned my top, I'm telling you now, I would really move, but we got another one.
David Dollar (06:15): So I tell you what. I want to hear about the tops and about the food and school and all that, in just a minute. We need to take a short commercial break. So let me interrupt you, and we'll pick right back up here. You're making me hungry. We'll be right back after this message from People's Bank, our sponsor. (06:34): Hello. Once again, in case you're just joining us, this is David Dollar visiting this morning on Memories with Ms. Marie Smith. She's got me right in the middle of a story about tops and baby chicks and some of the best fruit you ever had. And some of the things that kids were involved in when she was growing up, don't let me interrupt you again. Go right ahead. Let's start talking about the tops again and school.
Marie Smith (06:57): Well, that was our outdoor activities because there wasn't no place to play in the house. And you certainly didn't run through the house. There wasn't that much room to run through because... And you weren't sent to a room with a TV to look at. So that kind of punishment we didn't get, but we had swings. We had a lot of shade trees. And we would swing in those swings sometimes until nine o'clock at night, until our mother or father told us we had to come in and go to bed. Well, we had about three swings out there, and we would swing on those and play, and play hide and go seek.
David Dollar (07:31): Let me ask you this. While you're talking, you mentioned the types of punishment that you didn't get. What happens if one of the kids kind of stepped out of line? What sort of things did your parents do to you as punishment?
Marie Smith (07:44): Well, I don't remember many, any of us getting too many whippings.
David Dollar (07:49): Oh really? That was really severe then.
Marie Smith (07:49): Yes.
David Dollar (07:49): You really had to do something bad.
Marie Smith (07:51): The last one we got, I remember, was we were romping in the house and our father told us to quit, and we didn't quit when he said. And he gave us a whipping for that. That was the last whipping that I remember [inaudible 00:08:06]-
David Dollar (08:05): And probably the last time you romped in the house too.
Marie Smith (08:07): Yes. Well, we had to mind. It was too many of us, and they had to have some system. Now, my mother said the older children, see 13 of them, and I come along around eleven-
David Dollar (08:19): There were 13 children in your family?
Marie Smith (08:20): Yes.
David Dollar (08:21): My goodness.
Marie Smith (08:22): So some of the older ones were gone. And my brother used to say that he never saw a star unless he woke up and looked out the window. Because mama had them all in the bed by six o'clock.
David Dollar (08:34): My goodness.
Marie Smith (08:35): So you had to have routine, and children had to mind. My father used to say that we weren't as good as the first ones because he got tired of worrying with us.
David Dollar (08:47): I bet that is really true. [crosstalk 00:08:49]
Marie Smith (08:49): But we had a good home. We enjoyed our parents, and we did things that we thought they wanted us to do. Now, once a year, my father took us to see our grandmother, lived on the other side of Carencro. The little houses are still there. And we had to cross on the ferry. That was like going to Europe, as far as we were concerned.
David Dollar (08:49): I'd bet it was, kind of scary.
Marie Smith (09:13): The red river was bank to bank then. And when we got to the river, they put their wagon and team on the ferry boat. We all got out in case some animal would get unruly or something. And crossing that river, ooh, those big waves. And we spent about two or three days with our grandmother. And then ,once a year, she came to see us. That's all we saw of grandmas. And, to me, she was almost a stranger. I respected her, but I don't know as-
David Dollar (09:48): You didn't know who she was.
Marie Smith (09:53): ... who she was. And I feared her, in a way, because when she came to see us, we had to all be on our best behavior. I don't know, but boy, I wasn't glad when she's gone.
David Dollar (10:01): I bet so. Well, I tell you what that was... you have really brought back a lot of memories for me, even, same sorts of things, playing with brothers and sisters and sort of standing back in awe and, like you said, very much respect to grandparents.
Marie Smith (10:18): Oh, yes. We even respected the old negros on the place. We really had a respect for old age. And we weren't allowed to talk ugly to them or anything.
David Dollar (10:27): Let me take this and turn what we're talking about right now. We had talked a little bit about... We like to try to end our program with a closing memory. What do you think about that today in terms of tying what we've talked about today in our show. Do you think the children that are growing up today have got the same sort of respect for not only age but position, like grandparents, maybe age in general? What do you think about that?
Marie Smith (10:27): I don't think so-
David Dollar (10:55): And where have we gotten away from this practice?
Marie Smith (10:57): I have a lot of grandchildren, and I have 29 great grandchildren. And I kind of pal with my grandchildren. I played with them and played cards and things. And we argue, but they love me. They weren't afraid of me, and I didn't want them to be.
David Dollar (11:15): Do you think it's that, by all the newfangled things, we've got transportation and telephones and all that, you are much closer to them than you-
Marie Smith (11:15): I am closer.
David Dollar (11:26): You see them more often.
Marie Smith (11:28): And you weren't allowed to talk when there was company. You had to be quiet. And I always said, if I got old enough we could talk, I was going to do my share.
David Dollar (11:38): Well, I tell you what we're mighty glad you joined with us today, sharing with us on this Memories program, Ms. Smith. We're glad to have you. If you keep making tapes like this, I'm sure we'll have you back on this-
Marie Smith (11:38): Oh, I can tell you about more.
David Dollar (11:55): I bet so. We thank you for joining with us today. If any of you-
Marie Smith (11:58): Well, I enjoyed it.
David Dollar speaks with Marie Smith about growing up in Natchitoches, and her school-year memories.