Dear Bess: December 21, 1911
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Welcome to the Dear Bess/ Dear Harry podcast for December 21, 2021, a service of Harry S Truman National Historic Site and the National Park Service. We would like to share a fascinating letter with you that was written by Harry S Truman, farmer, to his sweetheart Bess Wallace, on this date in 1911.
There is a lot of charm in this letter, as well as a little self doubt that Truman harbored. But the most interesting part of this letter revolves around a legal battle that Harry Truman and his parents were involved with. When Truman’s maternal grandmother, Harriet Louisa Gregg Young died, she left the farm to John and Martha Truman, as well as Harry, who was partner in John A. Truman and Son, Farmers. Martha Truman’s siblings contested the will, and that legal battle took not only time, but significant financial resources, seemingly much of the profits of the farm. Eventually, the Trumans won the legal challenge, but at significant cost. Unfortunately, much of the paperwork from this challenge seems to be lost, making the mentions that Truman made in these letters very valuable.
Grandview, Mo. December 21, 1911
Dear Bessie: You cheated me out of two pages. Aren't you ashamed? If you only knew how glad I am to get them, you wouldn't be so short with them. I suppose I am too crazy about you anyway. Every time I see you I get more so, if it is possible. I know I haven't any right to but there are certain things that can't be helped, and that is one of them. I wouldn't help it if I could you know.
I guess you are lucky that you don't care-as even the best of fellow, which I am not, couldn't very well make a girl happy on nothing a week and a hat- full of debts. You see, I was fool enough or good enough, whichever way you look at it to go in with daddy even on his debts. Say, don't ever mention that as no one knows he has any, especially his relatives, See?
Really though if I thought you cared, I bet I could win out anyway in spite of all the kin in creation.
This is a mighty poor Christmas letter but our dear relatives have succeeded in giving us the bluest Christmas since grandmother died. If you could see the allegations in the brief, you'd think my mother was the prime lady villain. It makes me so mad I could fight a boilermaker. They even accused our grandmother of being weak minded and most everything else-when she was the best businesswoman I ever expect to see. If we'd ever mentioned property to her, that itself would have finished us-as it should have done.
Bessie, if my dear men friends who invited themselves to dinner here Christmas go home on the afternoon train, I am going to try and see you Christmas evening if you are at home. I'll call you up if I can, or if I can't, about five-thirty. But don't stay at home on my account because I may not get to come. I'll bring you a copy of Richeileu if I come. I got Edwin Booth's prompt copy for fifteen cents. It's a stirring play I tell you. Mamma and Mary are going to see Julius in the afternoon. Maybe you'll run into them. I sent you a piece of tin jewelry the other day. I got it some time ago but found a busted link in the chain and had to have it renewed, so when I got it again I just sent it--that's why so early. With a Merry Christmas, I am, as always,
Your Harry
Lots of romance in this letter, plus an interesting insight into a legal battle Harry Truman and his family were engaged in concerning the will of Mrs. Harriet Louisa Gregg Young, Harry Truman's grandmother.
You can see the original letter here: https://www.trumanlibrary.gov/library/truman-papers/correspondence-harry-s-truman-bess-wallace-1910-1919/december-21-1911